Monday, October 22, 2018

COMPELLED: Week 7 - Self-Growth

Maybe you've heard educators talk about learning and time like this: "We must make learning the constant and time the variable," OR "It doesn't matter when a student learns something, but that they DO learn." 

Have you ever heard similar versions of those quotes? 

I think the same thing is true for us... for dedicated, professional, positive, thoughtful, compelled educators. There is no time limit on learning and self-growth. There is no buzzer that will go off and let you know that your time is up and that "you can't teach an old dog new tricks." Personal development and self-growth is a life-long process, filled with risk-taking, missteps, and learning. No matter where you are on your educator journey, there is always an opportunity for growth.

Three principles to self-growth:

1. It takes a specific mindset.
Choose a growth mindset, knowing that skills and knowledge are not fixed. Also, be positive and approach challenges with a positive attitude will lead to greater growth. 
2. Be willing to face your fears.
We can be limited by what we believe to be true about ourselves as we put ceilings on our capabilities. When we are willing to step outside our comfort zones, we can redefine our view of ourselves and what we are capable of. 
3. Align your values and your practice.
For greatest self-growth, it's important to know your beliefs and values in order to know what kind of life you want to lead and what kind of legacy you want to leave. This moral compass will help you focus on areas of self-growth that will support alignment between your actions and your beliefs.

“The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

When we commit to learning and growth as an educator we are making a commitment to success for our students, because our WHY should include students as well as ourselves. How are you growing as an educator?

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Monday, October 15, 2018

COMPELLED: Week 6 - Passion

This is the sixth post in a 15-post series about characteristics of compelled educators. The characteristics and ideas I post about are not earth-shattering revelations by any means. They are more reminders to all of us. Let's keep our fire hot and our purpose front and center!

My husband is a certified drone pilot. He got interested in drones about 6 years ago, and he purchased and became a certified pilot about 4 years ago. He LOVES anything that has to do with drones. He watches YouTube videos by Casey Neistat and any other webinars or videos that have to do with flying, building, discussing, or even repairing drones. He recently purchased a large Matrice drone and LiDAR so that he can work with surveyors and other mapping porfessionals. If you ask him about his drones, his face lights up and he gets very excited to share whatever he knows and can about LiDAR and drones. He would love for working with drones to one day become a full-time position for him. His passion is obvious and contagious!

What about you? Are you like my husband? When someone asks you about education and what you do, does your face light up? Do you read everything you can about being a better teacher/leader/counselor/etc? Do you watch webinars so that you can learn more about the developmental stages of the students you work with? Do you get excited about professional learning? Do you seek out opportunities to learn more about what you do? Are you FIRED UP to go to work each day?

Would you say that you are passionate about what you do? Is it obvious to others? Would others say that you are passionate about what you do? If you won the lottery today, would you keep doing your current job? 

Passion is when you put more energy into something than is required to do it. It is more than just enthusiasm or excitement, passion is ambition that is materialized into action to put as much heart, mind, body and soul into something as is possible.

Passion is the energy that we bring to the table. It fuels us to keep going, to get better, to be better. It attracts others who are passionate, too, and it's contagious. And being passionate means taking action. 

Check out the short video below by Chris Do

The first 10 seconds are powerful. Go ahead - rewatch them. 

Passion = action. 

"You can't fake passion."

No passion for your job? Luke Ball (@lukemball) wrote a blog post on how to find it

Luke says it's a choice. It starts with us. It starts with action. 

What do you think? Can we choose to be passionate about what we do? I would love to hear your thoughts about this post. Feel free to reach out on twitter or Facebook, or leave your comments below. 

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Wednesday, October 10, 2018

Finding and building on each other's strengths


From my introduction to the Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator to StrengthsFinder 2.0 by Gallup to learning about Marcus Buckingham and his book, Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently, I've realized and believe that everyone has different strengths.

Marcus Buckingham defines strengths this way:
"it’s not something that you’re good at, just like a weakness isn’t something that you’re bad at.  A strength is an activity that strengthens you. That you look forward to doing.  It’s an activity that leaves you feeling energized, rather than depleted. We all have things that we’re good at, but that we hate doing, right? Those are called weaknesses."         (Source)

It's my goal to see each person fully in his/her strength -- to understand it, appreciate it, and encourage contribution from each person in his or her area of strength. I also believe that it's important in collaborative settings to know about your teammates' strengths (as well as your own) in order to have a highly functioning team. Getting to know yourself and your teammates better can leader to higher morale, a more positive culture and climate, and greater job satisfaction. 

I can't expect to learn about others' strengths without fully understanding my own, which leads me to the High 5 Test, a free online strengths test. 

At our school-wide professional development day this week, three of our teachers led a session titled, "Unlocking your Super Power," and they had participants to complete the High 5 Test. The participants then shared their own results in a Google Form, and the results (Google sheet) were displayed on a screen in front of the room. Participants got to discuss their own strengths as well as those of their colleagues.

You can see my results below:

From the website, I was able to find the description of each trait.

Coaches enjoy discovering the potential in other people and supporting
their personal growth. They find it hard to accept when this potential is
getting wasted.

Self-Believers are independent and self-sufficient people, inspiring others
with their certainty and confidence. They cannot stand when others tell
them what to do or control their actions. 

Optimists enjoy giving praise on what’s right about people and being
grateful for what they have. They find it hard to be around people who
constantly pick out what’s wrong in everything. 

Empathizers are great at noticing how others feel and using this
understanding to do something good. They are frustrated when asked to
disregard feelings and emotions and follow strict logic instead.

Catalysts enjoy getting things started and creating momentum in a
stagnant environment. Catalysts cannot stand waiting and wasting time
when they could be getting things off the ground.

How could taking the High 5 Test and sharing results with each other impact the culture of your school?

If you take the High 5 Test, feel free to share your results in the comments below!

Monday, October 8, 2018

COMPELLED: Week 5 - Forgiving

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I think that we can all agree that learning anything will be fraught with mistakes. Having a growth mindset accepts and understands that "failure" is part of the learning and growing process. Forgiveness of one's self and others is what I call the backbone of growth mindset. When forgiveness is front and center, risk-taking becomes a central part of a classroom or school culture, as well as one's own personal mission statement.

What exactly is forgiveness?

Let's start with what it's not. I love how The Good Men Project states this.
Defining forgiveness through the back door:
--To forgive does NOT mean that you condone wrongdoing. 
--Reaching a place of true forgiveness is NOT about you deciding that what someone did is okay if it was not. 
--Forgiving does NOT mean you have to forget 

Forgiveness lives in the present and the future. Forgiveness lets go of the past, knowing that the past can't be changed. Forgiveness is a choice that we all make, and before we can choose to forgive others, we must choose to forgive ourselves. 

Don’t wait to forgive until you feel like forgiving; you will never get there. Feelings take time to heal after the choice to forgive is made. 
―Neil Anderson


It can be easier to write about or think about forgiveness than to actually do it. 
It's a hard, courageous choice, but one worth it in the end. 

Brene Brown states in her book, Rising Strong:
"Forgiveness is so difficult because it involves death and grief.  I had been looking for patterns in people extending generosity and love, but not in people feeling grief.  At that moment it struck me:  Given the dark fears we feel when we experience loss, nothing is more generous and loving than the willingness to embrace grief in order to forgive.  To be forgiven is to be loved."

Forgiving our students and our colleagues is a powerful means to becoming a better educator. Here are seven ways to become a better forgiver (from an infographic on my "Forgiveness" Pinterest board)

     1. Don't wait for an apology

     2. Practice giving the benefit of the doubt

     3. Be clear and kind about why you are hurt

     4. Remember you are on the same team

     5. Accept an apology when it is offered

     6. Don't dig up buried offenses

     7. Consider extending your own olive branch

What's been your experience with forgiveness as an educator? I would love to hear your story in the comments below or via social media - Twitter or Facebook


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Monday, October 1, 2018

COMPELLED: Week 4 - Servantship


When a person assumes the role of educator, he or she makes a conscious choice to take on a role that has potential to change the world. The educator becomes the counselor, teacher, encourager, disciplinarian, father- or mother-figure, nurturer, healer, and more. 

Compelled educators accept and embrace their many roles. We understand the potential impact of our work, and we intentionally choose to do whatever we can to meet the needs of their students and if we are leaders, our staff, too.

Servantship is a mindset. It comes from a spirit of gratitude and a mission to help others to be successful.      

servant leadership

We often hear of "Servant Leadership" rather than servantship in education. Educators with or without leadership titles are leaders. Servant Leadership is a phrase that was coined by Robert K. Greenleaf in The Servant as Leader in 1970.

Larry C. Spears is the CEO and president of the Larry C. Spears Center for Servant-Leadership. After studying Greenleaf's work, he identified a set of ten characteristics of the servant leader that he viewed as being of critical importance.  Below, you can see the 10 characteristics and how they apply to teachers. 

Characteristics of Servant Teachers
Listen to students to help them determine their learning needs.
Understand the students’ perspective and foster an learning environment where student can openly express their thoughts
Some students will fail.  It’s an important part of the learning process.  Rebuild the student’s self-confidence after failure.
Help students understand the importance of an concept but allow freedom to formulate their own opinions
Be aware of students’ response to your teaching methods and be adaptable
Plan carefully using student-centered methods
See the big picture.  How do all the parts fit together.
Commitment to Growth
Help each student reach his/her potential.  Foster your own growth as a teacher.
Seek to improve the community and the profession.
Build Community
Create a welcoming environment but help students hold themselves and others accountable.

Kent Wilson, author of Steward Leadership in the Non-Profit Organization, outlined characteristics of servant leadership. The descriptions apply to teachers, counselors, and school leaders, as well as other staff members that impact the life of a child. It's more inclusive of all of the members of the education community, regardless of position.

Servant Leadership

Strategy To ensure that other people’s highest-priority needs are being met and they develop as persons

Core Identity Servant

Style of Leadership Participative

Motivation for Leadership Intrinsic: altruism (selfless pursuit of the interest of others), service to others

Characteristics Listening, empathy, healing, awareness, persuasion, conceptualization, foresight, stewardship, commitment, community

Primary Action
Serve people’s highest-priority needs; “servant first, leader second”

Goal of Leadership
Empowered followers

Albert Einstein Quote

How much do you agree that servantship is a characteristic of compelled educators? 
Who has been your role model for servantship?

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